Just recently, my friend went through a very sad breakup.
She was heartbroken, depressed, almost fragile. She seeks support from person near to her-her friends. But unforutnately, this one friend said this to her;
"Ala, baru kapel kejap pon nk sedey. Orang kapel 8thn ni putus pon ok lg"
She just keep silent. She looked at the floor. And few minutes later, I can hear she said:
"But I love him"
Yes, I agree. No matter how long or how short the love is, love is love. It needs more then just "I like him la" to fall in love with someone. It involves deep passion, great interest and high care. Just when all these 3 criterias are taken away from someone, just imagine how it will effect the person. As if, part of his/her life is taken away.
Damn you friend, why must you be that mean? So you breakup after 8years of relationship, you think nobody else deserves all the simpathy from us? So at this point of time we should stand only by you and ignore the others? Don't you think you are a bit too selfish?
To you readers out there, please understand your friend. Pick the right words at the right time. You do not need to always agree, just be there when he/she needs you the most. That only, is enough to make your friend happy. It's not so hard, isn't it?
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